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Teachers, Don’t Take Away the Kid’s Voice!

Filed under: Advocacy — by at 2:07 am on Sunday, September 25, 2011

Caleigh's first day of schoolThe day after being told by Texas Department of Assistive & Rehabilitative Services that then 3-year old Caleigh would need to wait until starting school for a communication device, her mother Holly purchased an iPad and the Proloquo2Go app.

Caleigh has been communicating ever since. Thankfully she didn’t need to wait until she started school to find her voice.

After having the iPad for a short time, Holly explained, "We’re not having to fight to prove to people that she is a smart little girl anymore, because it’s there once they see her using the iPad.”

Caleigh has been able to communicate things that she never would have been able to without her iPad. She expressed “I like it” while at the beach during summer vacation.  She asked for “more” after riding her first tricycle at the Abilities Expo in Houston.

Late this summer, with the start of Pre-Kindergarten on the horizon, Caleigh shared she was having dreams about not being able to talk at school.

How heartbreaking! I can totally relate to her fear.

Frustratingly, her dream (or nightmare) came true on only Day 2 of school…

First, the speech therapist came in for a session consisting of a clip board with pictures that Caleigh was supposed to point to in response to the therapist questions; not her known and familiar means of communication. Her iPad, her only voice, was not within reach for her to use. 

After commenting to Holly that Caleigh had not paid attention during the lesson, the speech therapist admitted that she had not read Caleigh’s file prior to the first session. Who was being inattentive?

Then, the teacher and various therapists took her iPad to see how Proloquo2Go was set up; no doubt, without asking Caleigh’s permission or explaining how long they would have it.

Don’t take away the kid’s voice!

She was left with only one way to communicate: her cry. By the time Holly picked her up after the three hours (she had been waiting in the parking lot the whole time and would have been right there had someone called), Caleigh’s belly was extended and an area of bright red flesh was coming out of the g-button hole (for her g-tube feeding) like never before because of the amount of crying.

School days have not overly improved from there.

Thursday’s parent-teacher meeting left Holly in shock. The bottom line: the teacher does not believe Caleigh is the one communicating on the iPad because of the way Holly supports her elbows due to Caleigh’s dystonia (involuntary movement). “They do not believe that a 4 year old that is non-verbal, in a wheelchair and has a vision impairment could cognitively know what Caleigh knows.”

Holly also mentioned that the physiotherapist, who is also the Assistive Technology person, started off the little “get to know Caleigh’s iPad’ session by saying "now for those of you who aren’t familiar with the iPad, it was never made to be a communication device. Some parents have taken it upon themselves to make it one."

At this point in reading Holly’s account, I had my hand over my mouth and tears swelling in my eyes in utter disbelief. An iPad is not an communicator?

The iPad was not designed as a dedicated communication device is true. The iPad is a tool that can be used in countless ways; limited by only one’s imagination and the apps available at the time. The iPad can definitely be used as a communication device and is being used by thousands of people for that purpose.

This time last weekend I was in Portland, Oregon, solo. Because of my iPad, I was able to communicate with the hotel front desk that my supposed wheelchair accessible room was not accessible. I was able to order a double cheeseburger and an iced mocha from McDonald’s. I was able to carry on conversations with people I had just met. I was able to answer questions after delivering my PowerPoint presentation. (Yes, PowerPoint can be used for communication too, but that is another post.)

Do not dismiss the value of the iPad as a communication device solely because you are unfamiliar with using an iPad for communication.

Rather than putting Caleigh through the long ordeal of being assessed for another communication device that she may or may not be able to use independently, go with what she is comfortable with and move forward from there.

The process needs to begin with the teacher sincerely apologizing to Caleigh – not to or through Holly – for taking her iPad, her voice, without her permission. Reassure Caleigh that will never happen again and that the teacher respects her iPad as her way to talk.

Once trust and respect has been developed so that Caleigh feels safe to communicate, then – and only then – ask Caleigh a question without Holly in ear shot. Then have Holly support Caleigh as needed so that she may respond. You will then know who is or is not communicating. Gradually transition to other individuals supporting Caleigh in using her voice.

Meanwhile commend the parents Holly and Eric for their amazing work they done with Caleigh to get her to this point. Work with them to find a way Caleigh can use her iPad independently. If that proves not possible, then work with them to find another appropriate solution.

Do not tear down and throw out the successes Caleigh and her parents have experienced simply because you do not understand.

Rather, see her for the bright little girl she is, and encourage and enable her to reach for dreams. Please.

Isn’t that what school is all about?

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Comment by Bob Easton

September 25, 2011 @ 3:56 am

An incredibly disturbing story, but not a surprising story.

Education in the United States has become dominated by statists, by huge state sponsored unions, by people who know more than anyone else and who must be obeyed. These people are so full of themselves that they can’t imagine using any other pedagogy than that prescribed by their unions. Too bad if you think an iPad is a communication device. The only communication device that will satisfy them is one prescribed from a narrow list of crony vendors … none of which could possibly be used by a 4 year old. How dare the parents think of such a thing!

Am I too harsh? There are likely thousands of individual teachers who don’t behave as poorly, but their establishment drives them away from understanding their consumers, away from logic, away from common sense, and what we end up with is the situation you describe.

Someone who does not know the child, and has not taken the time to read anything about the child declares that an iPad is not a communication device and a 4 year old can’t possibly have the cognitive ability to use it. Case closed; send her home. If that is not statist behavior, what is?

If they can possibly afford it, Caleigh’s parents should be looking to either home schooling or private education.

Comment by Renee Laporte

September 25, 2011 @ 7:58 am

No, home schooling or private education is not the answer!!

This little girl is a blessing to every classroom she will be in from now until graduation.
Holly, her peers are going to LOVE her iPad communicating and the teachers and other staff will learn in time.
I love this blog. I want to recommend the documentary “A New Kind of Listening”. It reminds me of this. Never stop teaching others!!


Comment by Liz

September 25, 2011 @ 12:48 pm

Really outrageous…. I hope that Caleigh is able to keep using her iPad at school and that her teachers and school staff learn how to be more helpful.

Comment by Shawn Doud

September 25, 2011 @ 6:23 pm

That physiotherapist doesn’t seem equipped to communicate or innovate to help her patients.

Comment by Douglas T

September 26, 2011 @ 5:29 pm

If an iPad isn’t a communication device, then what is it? It allows the user to send and receive and process information from internal and external sources. Sounds like communication to me.

Comment by Glenda

September 26, 2011 @ 5:40 pm

Amen Douglas! Thank you!

Comment by Pam Harris

September 26, 2011 @ 6:44 pm

Renee, my son was challenged nearly every day in public school to prove he had a right to be there. The lowest of expectations and disdain from staff eventually damaged him- changed who is was meant to be. Finally, after sustaining an unexplainable injury, we grew too weary to fight any more and started to homeschool. Looking back, I know now that the negativity can deeply impact the child. Holly must be allowed to protect her daughter should the struggle become too much for the little girl to bear.

Comment by Barbara Grimes

September 27, 2011 @ 1:42 am

I’m moving my daughter into online education through the state, now becoming a popular option, with all the rights of IDEA in place. She’ll work under my supervision, but with a talk with her teacher a half-hour a day if she needs it, and that same special-ed endorsed teacher will serve as her teacher for all courses, except Band, which she’ll get at the brick school. Stay tuned for updates.

Comment by Dawn Goodwin

September 30, 2011 @ 9:23 am

I have to say my cousin Holly and her husband Eric are such wonderful parents. They have always encourage Caleigh to overcome every milestone she has come across and have found ways for Caleigh to achieve them. The Lord couldn’t have picked better parents for Little Miss Caleigh. The strength and determination of Caleigh has given me the strength to fight and overcome my struggles when finding out I had breast cancer at only 25. Caleigh is an amazing little girl and so smart. The iPad is her way of communicating. She is even spelling at only 4!!! And for someone to think that they have the right to try and take that from her, her voice, is outrageous. Just because they don’t understand, gives them no right at all. But the fact that Caleigh is able to use something so advanced in technology, just goes to show what a smart little cookie she truly is.

Comment by Bob Easton

October 5, 2011 @ 5:33 am

Dawn, Holly, Eric,
Caleigh is a wonderful gift! Keep her precious and protect her from the fools and idiots running our education system. Find the right educators and nourish Caleigh’s growth.

Sure, it sounds a good idea to think of Caleigh as a blessing to everyone she comes in contact with. Yet, that has already been proven not the case. Parents owe nothing (except taxes) to these school systems. There is no reason that we should SHARE our children with anyone. The children aren’t here to be shared and to enlighten others. I’m sure Caleigh’s parents will focus on her interests, not the rest of the “community.”

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