Do It Myself Blog - Glenda Watson Hyatt

Join the Conversation at the Readers’ Café on Wednesday

Filed under: Blogging, Readers Cafe — by Glenda at 11:12 pm on Tuesday, July 31, 2007

Following the successful opening of Readers’ Café two weeks ago, its doors will open again tomorrow, Wednesday, August 1st, 7-10pm Eastern Daylight Time. Readers’ Café is a place to gather and to share. Who knows who will show up or where the conversation will lead us. So, please join us for either the whole evening or pop in amidst your other duties. Hope to see you right here tomorrow.

Readers’ Café will be held the first and third Wednesdays of each month. Mark it on your calendar.

Vote for Glenda to be paid for a year for blogging

Until the café’s doors open on Wednesday evening, please vote for me so I may win the opportunity to be paid to blog for a year. Being paid to blog would enable me to focus more on blogging, rather than needing to find other ways to pay the bills.

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Knee Highs and Men’s Chunky Shoes: Almost Fashionable?

Filed under: Living with a disability — by Glenda at 1:48 pm on Monday, July 30, 2007

Striped socks
(Photo credit: Richard Styles)

Now that I’m wearing my butterfly AFO (ankle-foot orthotic) daily, I had to buy knee high socks. I haven’t worn knee highs since high school, when I had to wear my metal braces. My cute ankle socks are now shoved to the back of the drawer.

Between the clumsy plastic AFO, the knee highs, the black, men’s size 7 chunky shoes (needed to accommodate the AFO), and my baggy jeans (try finding fitted jeans with elasticized waists!), my bottom half is rather gorpy-looking. I’m now on the hunt for ultra feminine tops to counterbalance the gorpy bottom. And, I am hoping that we don’t get another hot spell this summer because I’m not yet confident enough to wear this ensemble with shorts! AFO surely stands for Anti-Fashion Objects.

In July’s O Magazine, Martha Beck shares research on the “spotlight effect”: the feeling that all eyes are upon us and, hence, to avoid embarrassment, we don’t live our lives to the fullest. Research found that “the spotlight effect makes most of assume we’re getting about twice as much attention as we actually are.” (Being in a wheelchair with a significant physical disability, am I imagining twice as many stares and whispers than I am actually receiving?)

Martha advises that we double everything – raising both hands to ask a question, pausing twice as long for dramatic effect, eating two servings of a delicious dessert – to feel liberated and to live life large. I wonder: would I become more confident if I had balanced gorpiness? If I wore two braces, would I be more apt to wearing shorts? Would the AFO then become an Almost Fashionable Object?

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On the Road Again

Filed under: Virtual Book Tour — by Glenda at 11:20 pm on Wednesday, July 25, 2007

Join me on the open road for my Summer Sojourn virtual book tour
(Photo credit: Dawn Allynn)

I am excited to announce I’m hitting the road again! I am kicking off my “Summer Sojourn” virtual book tour on Monday, August 20th. Like my “40 Blogs in 40 (Business) Days” tour, I’ll be visiting various blogs to talk about my book I’ll Do It Myself, about living with cerebral palsy and whatever else comes up.

The “Summer Sojourn” tour will be more laid back, being only two weeks rather than the grueling eight weeks like the first tour. This time around, I would like to chat with parent bloggers, particularly those with children with disabilities, and bloggers with disabilities. If you are interested in hosting an appearance, please take a look at my schedule to see which dates are available in August. My goal is to have the ten days fully booked before heading out.

Looking forward to seeing you on the road!

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Week in Review

Filed under: Living with a disability, Work — by Glenda at 7:33 pm on Friday, July 20, 2007

A week's calendar
(Photo credit: Sandra Cunningham)

Wow, what a week!

Monday: Amidst the uncertainty of a looming labour strike, Darrell and I delivered the second web accessibility training session for a local municipal government. With both sessions successfully delivered, I can now say that we hadn’t done anything like that before!

Darrell is a qualified instructor, but web accessibility isn’t his area of expertise. Web accessibility is my expertise, but I haven’t done much instructing before, mainly because of my speech impairment. But, presented with this opportunity (or challenge, depending upon your viewpoint), we did what we do: we figured out ways to work around our strengths and weaknesses and did whatever it took to get the job done. We must have successfully met the challenged because we received at enthusiastic applause.

Employers don’t know what they are missing by not hiring us!

Tuesday: I picked up my first pair of reading glasses. I’m not thrilled with having reached that milestone, but I confess its nice not needing to hold the page just so to read the fine print. Now, if only I had time to curl up with a good book!

Wednesday: The doors to Readers’ Café officially opened with a resounding success. The next Readers’ Café will be Wednesday, August 1st, at 4-7pm PDT / 7-10pm EDT. Be sure mark your calendar!

Thursday: After three hours of fitting, fiddling and fixing, my butterfly brace was finished. Wearing it is like wearing a cast: I have absolutely no movement now in my ankle, which makes putting on the $135-per-pair shoe very tricky.

The orthotist was concerned as she was making the brace that I wouldn’t be able to get it on myself. She even called the rehab specialist with her concern. His response was to make the thing and then they would figure out how to get in on; he would arrange for help to come in, if necessary. Have someone to come into our home every morning only to put on a brace and shoe? Great, something else to schedule into our busy! What happened to fostering independence so that I can do things myself?

Well, I’ve managed to get the brace on myself, but I need Darrell’s help to get the shoe on. It takes an extra half hour in the mornings. I’m not sure what I’ll do the mornings Darrell is out of the house early. But, I will figure out this challenge too – somehow!

(Saturday morning update: I did it! The trick was a cat toy, a drawstring from a pair of track pants and a half hour. Now I can start my day!)

Today: Thank goodness its Friday because I am out of steam!

Watch for a special announcement early next week! Until then, please vote and have a great weekend!

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Readers’ Café Officially Opens Its Doors

Filed under: Readers Cafe — by Glenda at 4:00 pm on Wednesday, July 18, 2007

A sidewalk café in Carouge, near the French border
(Photo credit: Janet Burgess)

Hello and welcome to the Readers’ Café – a place to gather and to share. Given the beautiful summer weather, the patio is also open to enjoy.

Thank you for coming. I invite you to help yourself to a beverage of choice, get comfy and join in the conversation by posting comments below. All that I ask is that you respect others and keep it relatively family-friendly.

Since tonight is opening night, I’m not sure what to expect or where the conversation will lead us! But, taking risks add to the adventure of life!

The person who risks nothing, does nothing, has nothing, is nothing, and becomes nothing. He may avoid suffering and sorrow, but he simply cannot learn and feel and change and grow and love and live.
~ Leo F. Buscaglia

And that is great place to begin the conversation. Share a time when you took a risk. What happened? Was it as risky as you thought initially?

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Readers’ Café Opens Today!

Filed under: Readers Cafe — by Glenda at 9:54 am on Wednesday, July 18, 2007

Readers’ Café – a place to gather and to share – officially opens at 7pm EDT/4pm PDT on Do It Myself Blog! You are welcome to stay for the whole evening or to pop in when you can between 7-10pm Eastern Daylight Time. You never know where the conversation may lead or who may show up.

Hope to see you here!

If you enjoyed this post, consider buying me a coffee. Thanks kindly.

Usability Expert Misses the Magic of Blogging

Filed under: Blogging — by Glenda at 9:49 pm on Saturday, July 14, 2007

In Jakob Nielson’s latest alertbox, he advises businesses to write in-depth articles rather than short blog posts that have a little or no value. He provides several diagrams to support his claims. However, one factor not shown in his diagrams is the magic of blogging. In-depth articles may better demonstrate your expertise in your field and increase your credibility, but they typically don’t promote interaction between the author and readers, and amongst readers. Oftentimes, that interaction is as valuable, if not more so, than the original article or post.

Within that interaction is where the magic of blogging occurs and, sometimes, it can be quite amazing. Allow me to share three stories to illustrate my point.

First story: Last Wednesday, Darrell and I had the pleasure of meeting with Norman and Dru from Sheffield, England. They have a daughter with cerebral palsy and have faced the all-too-common struggles in accessing the necessary services for her. Ten years ago, along with a group of other parents, they established the Paces School for Conductive Education so their children with cerebral palsy may receive what they need to thrive and succeed – to reach their full potential.

In preparation for his Winston Churchill Travel Fellowship study tour to Canada, the United States and Sweden to study the education of children with cerebral palsy, Norman found me in the blogoshpere and was impressed with my autobiography. We arranged to meet while they were in Vancouver. My book tour came to me – how amazing is that! I can see trip to Sheffield in the near future.

Second story: Last month, I listened to Patsi Krakoff and Denise Wakeman of The Blog Squad interview Allan Voivod who was talking about re-purposing content. Being a one-thumb typist, I’m all for getting the biggest bang possible from my typed word! I emailed him a question, which he kindly answered on his blog, giving my blog more exposure.

Apparently, my left thumb made quite an impression because, last week while sitting on the beach with another couple, watching their young sons play in the surf, my name happened to come up in conversation (I’m never sure how that happens, but it does!). The other fellow David happens to be the lead attorney in Burke & Eisner’s Cerebral Palsy and Pharmaceutical liability practice. He was also quite impressed with my blog. Thanks Allen and David for your support!

Third story: This morning I received a follow-up email from Nicole. This past school year she was the one-on-one assistant for a young boy with cerebral palsy in second grade. He worked hard this year and made much progress. He likes to do things by himself. When he does he says in his strongest voice, “I DID IT!”

Nicole made him a scrapbook to show his journey over the last year. In researching inspirational quotes and stories about having cerebral palsy, she came across my blog and asked me to write a note for his scrapbook, which I gladly did. Inspiring young people to keep trying and to do their best is why I’m “in business”.

The scrapbook, with my story and note featured on one page, has been viewed by everyone in his school, his mother, his grandparents, home health workers, and friends. They all loved it. How magical!

Touching the father of a girl with cerebral palsy, a lawyer representing parents and children with cerebral palsy and a special education assistant – my target market – is why I blog the way I do. If today’s business is built on relationships – on the “liked, known and trusted” factor, then, surely, this interaction found in the blogoshpere is as valuable as lengthy, in-depth articles that people may not have time to read.

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Announcing Readers’ Café: A Place to Gather and Share

Filed under: Readers Cafe — by Glenda at 9:31 pm on Friday, July 13, 2007

café in neon lights
(Photo credit: Anna Wolniak)

I excitedly announce the opening of Readers’ Café on Wednesday, July 18th, right here! Readers’ Café is a place to ask questions about my autobiography, share stories and brainstorm ideas.

Readers’ Café will work very much like Liz Strauss’ Open Mic Night. Join the conversation by simply posting comments. You are welcome to stay for the whole evening or to pop in and out amidst making dinner, putting the kids to bed, working at on your laptop on the beach or whatever you doing between 7-10pm Eastern Daylight Time. You never know where the conversation may lead or who may show up.

Please join us –

Date: Wednesday, July 18th, 2007
Time: 7-10pm EDT
Location: Right here!

Readers’ Café will be held the first and third Wednesdays of each month

Mark it on your calendar. Hope to see you here!

Meanwhile, please remember to vote and have a great weekend!

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